Never plan a wedding with the hope that you will recover your money in gifts at the end.
You will cry hot tears...
Make sure you can afford it and then go ahead.
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You're not having a wedding ceremony to impress or outdo anybody.
When you watch your videos, none of that will matter.
It should be the wedding of your dreams however, and if your dream wedding is by the seaside with 10 people in attendance... Go ahead and have it.
I beg you.
Borrowing to have a wedding is the WORST idea in the world, second to drinking Agbo to dilute the sugar you drank.
If you're broke after your wedding, then you overspent.
However, let every person do what pleases them.